Make Your Own Reality
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by: Mark Shapiro
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Date: Mon, 20 Feb 2012 Time: 5:43 PM
I'm a judgment broker who writes a lot. I assert: It is better to feel rich than to be rich. It is better to feel ok than to be ok. It's better to feel happy than to be happy. My article explains why I am confident making these claims.
Everything changes, and to a certain level, in one way or another; all things are fragile and temporary. Nothing on earth is guaranteed or lasts forever. A very rare, yet really clear example would be, what if you are really ok in all ways, and a meteor later comes out of the sky and strikes you? I assert that it's better to feel ok, than it is to "actually" be ok.
Actually being ok (when judged by an outside society/media standard, or your imagination), relies on the whole shebang, starting with health, freedom from pain, and getting sufficient money.
If everything is going perfectly, you're really ok in actual life, however sooner or later, part of everyone's actual reality will not stay "ok" as defined by external or imagined standards.
Feeling good could be a choice which does not rely on your situation. When you're ok with everything, you tend to suffer less. In life, pain is mandatory, and suffering is optional.
Feeling ok always make you happier, than wondering if you really are ok. Why worry about if you really are now, and are going to remain ok? Really being ok is not as reliable or solid, as intentionally feeling you are ok is. It's better to feel ok, than to be ok.
I assert that its better to feel rich than it is to really be rich. Probably 99 percent of the people in our world thinks and feels they don't have enough money. That means there might be a ninety-nine percent chance you won't really be "ok" money-wise, in actual life.
Alternatively, what if you constantly felt like you had plenty of money? You could then use your time attempting to make money, save money, and pay bills. You can feel a lot better feeling rich, than if you constantly worry about your bills and debts.
I think about paying bills only when I pay them. If I think about money, I focus solely on making and saving money. For me, its a fun hobby. This type of thinking lets me feel good about money, and stop worrying.
I claim that it is better to feel happy than to really be happy. Many people seem to mirror their environment. If they are poor, sick, old, or lonely, they are sad. If or when something good happens, they get temporarily happy.
There are two ways to get happier. One way depends on everything or something going or being right.
The other way to get happier is to detach somewhat, and feel good no matter what is going on. Feeling happy when the world is not, is a learned skill. For me, meditation can help, one must follow their own path. Ideally, you can learn to enjoy your situation or your work, or a way to enjoy them more.
Thinking "Am I happy?", or predicting an event or time that makes you happy, is almost a complete waste of thought. It is best to imagine happiness, invent happiness, or create happiness out of the air, and then focus on on what you do, not what the world does.
Worrying is useless. If you can effect an outcome for the positive, then act. If you cannot, then accept you cannot, and then hope for the best. An interesting talk concerning happiness, is at http://www.ted.com/talks/dan_gilbert_asks_why_are_we_happy.html.
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